However when I get that deep, dark, depressed feeling inside that makes me want to cry and let it all out, I can never turn on the water works. Which makes me more frustrated and depressed.
So I have a solution. There are four movies that can get me to cry.... No... Bawl.
A Walk To Remember
Dancer In The Dark
Charly
Prayers For Bobby
**SPOILER ALERT** The one common thread in all these movies is that a character always ends up dying. There are plenty of stories out there that I feel like use the death of a character solely to evoke a cheap tear from the audience. However, in these movies it's never death that brings the tears. I'm defiantly not in ANY rush to die, but death doesn't really scare me or make me sad.
Anyway, if you if you're ever in need of a good cry, you now know where to turn. I wouldn't recommend watching them all in one sitting... it might leave you quite dehydrated.
Its things like noticing a boy become a man, and a girl achieve all of her dreams.
Its things like watching a mother work her ass off to help her son, and after losing hope, finding out that her efforts were not in vain.
Its things like seeing a husband in denial that his wife is dying and a mother longing for her child just to remember her.
Its things like empathizing with a boy who's mother believes God would make her pick between loving her son, and being a good Christian.
Its things like watching a mother work her ass off to help her son, and after losing hope, finding out that her efforts were not in vain.
Its things like seeing a husband in denial that his wife is dying and a mother longing for her child just to remember her.
Its things like empathizing with a boy who's mother believes God would make her pick between loving her son, and being a good Christian.
Anyway, if you if you're ever in need of a good cry, you now know where to turn. I wouldn't recommend watching them all in one sitting... it might leave you quite dehydrated.


Oh Austin, you are such a softie. It's wonderful. You should check out one that almost always makes me tear up, I think you'd like it a lot. "Random Harvest" with Ronald Colman & Greer Garson. An old movie but a real classic. Trust me on this. DON'T read any plot spoilers, just get it and watch it without knowing anything about it, okay? Trust me.
ReplyDeleteI know that feeling of wanting to cry but you cant and it drives me nuts. I have a song that I listen to that brings the tears out. I know people think we are weird for saying we want to cry but I usually feel so much better afterwards. We have a lot in common. Take care bud
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Charly gets me every single time.
ReplyDeleteI also know the feeling of wanting to cry but not being able to. It's rare for me to cry. About anything. I often wonder if I'm just emotionless, except for anger. I have to admit that Prayers for Bobby did make me tear up a bit, but that's it. I envy you for being able to turn on the water works, even if it's not always when you think it should be.
ReplyDeleteBesides "A Walk To Remember", I haven't seen those movies. "Walk" ALWAYS cry, too, and I'm not a cryer. When I do need to cry, though, I watch "Pay It Forward." I think you'll like it~
ReplyDeleteI love Walk to Remember and Prayers for Bobby.
ReplyDeleteI also have to completely agree with EJ: Pay It Forward gets me every time and I've seen plenty of times. I don't even have to watch the end... the scene with the homeless guy on the bridge will have me bawling half-way into the film.
Dancer In The Dark kinda sucks those tears up into total mortifying shock in that last scene! I loveeeee Bjork.
ReplyDeleteThere are times when I am so full of emotion that little things will trigger a crying jag. So it's not the trigger that made me cry but that I need to release all the pent up emotion and that movie or whatever it is allows me to let the emotion out.
ReplyDeleteTo be honest in my case it is obviously pent up sexual frustration but it is also a need for emotional intimacy with another man.
Is the parenthetical statement a hint? Haha.
ReplyDeleteWhat about these cheap deaths? You may disagree.
Steel Magnolias
Moulin Rouge
Pay It Forward
Forrest Gump
Carousel (musical movie)
Star Wars III
Gone with the Wind
Forever Strong
Life as a House
Road to Perdition
Cold Mountain
Little Women
Pearl Harbor
Don't get me wrong, some of these Movies are still fantastic! I only consider Dramas as eligible for this award. Horror/Action where everyone dies is based on cheap deaths so their out. Children's movies often have them too, but can't really rag that. And anything telling true stories (documentaries and historical movies) are out too. A screenwriter can't just decide to let Harvey Milk live!